The new ways

I do not like

At one point, someone said that the cemetery should be made into a park and I assumed it was a quite ordi-nary park, i.e. one where people sunbathe, eat lunch in the grass and children play on the lawn. It doesn't mat-ter what is placed here as decoration, it is still a cemetery, with or without the headstones and it always will be. No dog is to poop on my grave or on the graves of my family, that is so disrespectful, like walking all over other people's graves, removed all traces of the grave or not - it is still there and I would never ever eat my Sunday lunch there.

Do I want to lie under such a standard garden tile? No

So I have thought a lot about this and came to the conclusion that I would never find rest here - but where then to be put to rest? I want it to be in an unmarked grave, either in that of the unknown ones or unmarked next to my family members, but I have difficulty in deciding one or the other, this cemetery or somewhere els. I only know that I want an unmarked grave, I do not want my name on a stepping stone or any stone, someone can just destroy and throw away if no one can afford to pay for the grave. Something else is, I do not like lawns at all and therefore I do not want to lie under one either.

I love trees and flowers, so a place with many flowers in the shade of trees, I would so love rest.